Sailing: When
you're out to sea, no land in sight, you ease
into your hammock and listen to the waves lap
softly against the hull. You lie safe in
the ocean's embrace, held by powerful arms that
rock you gently to sleep.
The desire to
experience that sensation never dies; it's primal
urge stems from our infancy, an instinctive need
to know that we're safe and cared for. Once
achieved, it produces a serenity that pushes
everything else from our conscious mind.
~
Submission: A
return to serenity; a sacred zone of safety and
grace attainable when the 'fit' between Domina
and submissive is right. Pain dissipates
and becomes unending energy, transforming every
inch of your body into a quivering receptor of
exquisite sensations. An amazing flower
that unfolds from within. Nirvana.
Not easily
attainable. This isn't to say that a
session can't be intense, fun or even
challenging. But reaching a hallowed state
takes time, trust, and a skilled Dominatrix, into
whose experienced hands you willingly place your
deepest needs, honestly thought out and openly
stated.
Connection is a
treasure; communication its key.
~
The true craft of a
Domina lies in establishing this connection
between mind and emotion, in making you believe
without doubt that She can see into your very
soul.
A Woman who knows your
strengths and weaknesses and accepts you as you
really are does more than explore your limits;
She helps you expand your life. And then smoothes
your return to a vanilla mind-set and your most
treasured obligations: to family, profession and
spouse. Not to do so would be a flagrant
violation of Her own scared vows.
And when Nirvana is
reached? Time stands still; sex becomes an
unnecessary and even unwanted distraction.
Thus, no matter how beautiful the Mistress,
sexual climax rarely occurs to the submissive
whose soul has flown elsewhere.
If you have never
experienced this Bliss it may be because of fears
within you; a wall you maintain. Dismiss
it. Let go, embrace every opening petal and
give yourself completely to Her: a gift that will
never be abused, and that will grow as great as
you.
Lady Scorpion
© 1999