Yes, as long as a Domina knows what she's doing. Not for the Novice, it requires mastery of the four T's:
Time, Total relaxation, Training and a Ton of lubrication.
Another factor to consider: a Dominatrix with hands smaller than a shoebox. An amusing thought, but important to a
successful fisting.
Proper preparation is crucial. As with any rectal play, the anal cavity must be scrupulously clean and free of all fecal
matter. Besides the obvious (the extreme rudeness of presenting a dirty bottom to a Mistress) there is a medical reason for
such care. The mucous membranes lining the rectal cavity might be scratched or abraded by the fecal matter itself, opening
the peritoneal cavity to massive infection ... a potentially life threatening situation without prompt proper medical care.
Training: Your body must adjust to constantly larger dildos; when you're comfortably able to accept a dildo 3 inches
in diameter your rectum is ready to receive a fist. For this you must learn to relax the sphincter muscle. Those who cannot
master proper relaxation techniques are prime candidates for an unscheduled visit to their local ER. (Hint - practice deep
abdominal breathing techniques to help yourself relax.)
Furthermore, for this discipline, DO NOT ever use a water-soluble lubricant; they're thin and tend to dry out over the
length of a fisting session. What should you use? A can of Crisco. (I use the pre-packaged sticks of Crisco. One stick is
usually more than enough and if there's any of the open stick left over, throw it away.) Buy the smallest can you are able
to find if you can't get the sticks and discard anything left over.
Note: Never use Crisco during intercourse or with a condom; it destroys the latex. And, although fisting done properly
is relatively pain-free, be advised fisting is not listed in the category of safe sex. Which is why, highly pleasurable though
the practice was for My people, I can only recommend a few other Dommes equally as skilled who can safely perform a fisting.
It takes years of skill, knowledge, expertise and experience to keep a submissive safe; the most important factor in any session.
Due to the local laws I no longer do any fisting or anal play. you might want to consult
Max Fisch's Domina Guide's Community Board Review section. You will have to register to make an inquiry about someone in your
area, but you can use a blind e-mail address of the kind available at Yahoo,
Free Excite Mail or at Hotmail; all
are free of charge.
Lady Scorpion
© 1999
I have chosen to leave this article here as reference for others. I no longer do fisting or anal penetration of any kind.
Such activities violate the law in Florida and I will not break the law. Thank you for understanding.